Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Dwight Hurst

I am sad and surprised to hear that Dwight Hurst died. He was 61. He was one of just a few adults who, when I was a teenager/young adult, treated me like a person and not "just a kid". He had the rare humility to not look down on me just because I was young. I was a sober, serious, sensitive sort of girl on the whole, and his respect for my accomplishments was very validating to me. Dwight was the primary pianist when I, at age 18, had my first foray into primary as chorister. I had never done such a thing, but he knew I had the musical background for it, and he really helped me without condescension as I fumbled through it. He played these hilarious editorial piano ditties throughout our various primary activities, and added in all sorts of curlicues and embellishments that made me laugh. He made everyone laugh. What a paradox: he was a lawyer and an accountant, yet he wrote painfully pun-packed play scripts that various amateur acting groups produced. My family and I are speaking fondly of him, as he was a bright spot in our lives. In October at Eila's 70th birthday party I asked Iris Young about him (she said he was fine as far as she knew) and told her to tell him hi for me. I hope she did. I am waiting to hear more details since the obituary was sadly lacking. I'm sure his family and the entire church in Albuquerque are missing him sorely while celebrating his life.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Kimberly,
Julie and Sam were here in Utah for a day or two after the funeral (He was burried in Blanding, UT). I got to chat with them for a few hours on Easter Sunday. I guess his death was quite a suprise. He had cancer and was going through chemo, but the doctors were very optimistic about his recovery. Sadly, it was the chemo (they think it was probably a blood clot) and not the cancer that got to him. It is a sad loss. He was only 61. He wrote us some great roadshows!

Anonymous said...

Lindy, thank you for the explanation we all needed.
However, it leaves me with chills. cold ones. You see, some months ago I had a dream that I went to visit Dwight while in ABQ. I could see quite clearly that we were sitting in the Hurst's living room when he told me that he had cancer and was dying. I thought many times that I should call him to tell him of this dream. He would so enjoy the joke. Now amusement has turned to horror as I realize the the price paid for my refusal to listen to what was so obviously a loud and clear admonition to communicate with someone who deserved one last hoop-la.Kids---
we must all learn a lesson.

Kimberly said...

Julie (Hurst) Smith sent this to me in an email: "I tried to post this on your blog, but I am hopeless. Thanks so much for the nice entry about my dad. He would have loved it. I know he always thought you were just wonderful. I will print it and show it to my mom. We are doing okay here. I keep too busy with the kids to dwell very much on the sadness, which is a good. It has been pretty rough, though. We love your blog. Thanks for invitng us. Hopefully, I can figure out how to post comments the usual way."